sábado, 20 de noviembre de 2010

Dealing with stressful situations



We have in our lifes, stressful situations and we have to live and face it in a better way.
Here, you are going to find some advices and HOW give advices to the people that you love, that are in this situation.
  • Take control of the situation.
When someone is in a weird situation, and he/she does not know what to do, he/she has to control the situation, he/she is living it, and he/she has the decision to live it like he/she want.

  • Present a case
We have to present the case which we are living, or leave, that someone present his/her case to understand and if he/she has to have help, give it to them ; but if not, take control of the situation and present the case to people with more responsability.
  • Take someone seriously
There is a moment in life, when is a need to take someone seriously after we "play" enough.
  • Give someone/yourself a head start
In life, we have to give to other people, the same advantage that we have in our moment.
  • Stick to your guns
There is a moment in life, when we are so stubborn with our "world" that we lose the oportunties that life present us; BUT, sometimes is necesary stay with our ideas because we can change the world, step by step, but with perseverance.
  • Use something to your advantage
Sometimes, is necesary the fact to take what we find or have to use it for ourselves.
  • Defend your position
Always, we are going to face opposition in everything we do, and is that opposition that make us stronger and is in that moment, when we have to defend what we want and what we need, that is our position.
  • Leave someone in no doubt:
Sometimes, we have to tell off to people how are things and what we have to do, and ask them to respect our decisions and ideas.

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